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Cosmetic
concerns
What many people fear most about chemotherapy
is not how sick it will make them feel - it's
how sick it will make them look. People worry
about losing their hair, getting bad skin and
losing or gaining weight. Not everyone experiences
these side effects. But for those who do, there
are ways of dealing with them.
Keeping up appearances
Some people feel like giving up when they lose
their hair. But it's worth it to keep yourself
looking as sharp as possible. If you look in the
mirror and see an attractive person, it will help
you stay healthier. You will feel more confident
and in control. Here are some things to do to
keep up your appearance:
- If your clothes don't fit, have some of
them altered, or buy a few new items. There
are a number of stores that sell clothes for
less than you would expect. You don't have to
spend a lot of money to look good!
- Accessorize. You won't need to have
scarfs, ties or pins altered, and a small item
can really add sparkle.
- Treat yourself. Have a spa day, a manicure,
a massage. If there was ever a time you could
justify it, it's now.
- Take care of your skin. Ask your doctor,
dermatologist or pharmacist about skin creams
and facial treatments to use. But be gentle.
If you shave, you may want to use an electric
razor to prevent breaks in the skin.
- Exercise. Ask your doctor to help you
determine how much you can manage. Keeping fit
will keep you looking and feeling healthier.
If you're losing your hair, you may want to get
a wig. If so, get one while you still have hair,
so you can match the colour. But you may not want
to get a wig. Some people prefer hats or scarves
instead.
Support groups
There are many support groups and resources to
help people undergoing chemotherapy to deal with
appearance changes. One group that's focused on
this is Look Good, Feel Better (www.lgfb.ca).
They're dedicated to promoting a positive self-image
for women with cancer. They have support from
private companies as well as many volunteers who
can help you with techniques and answer questions.
You can also turn to the Canadian Cancer Society
(www.cancer.ca) for information and contacts.
They have support groups for men and women dealing
with cancer. They also have a wealth of resources
on their website, as do the American Cancer Society
(www.cancer.org). Go for help and support - you'll
be glad you did.
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